Welcome to my blog!

I'm so excited to finally write my first entry! I thought it would be helpful if I used this post to briefly introduce myself and tell you what you can expect to find on here.

Let's get right to it!

I'm a 20 year old dreamer and writing enthusiast. I graduated from college very recently and finally found the time and motivation to start expressing myself through blogging.

I'm a complete beginner with big plans and hopes. I want to use this blog to share everything I've learned about self-development so far & to inspire you to be the best version of yourself.

You can expect new entries every week.

Paula ♥

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Why seeking validation from others will only harm your self worth & how to stop

We all have insecurities and we all look for validation from others whether we'd like to admit it or not. It often starts in our early life when we feel the need to fulfil the expectations imposed on us by our parents. Later, it escalates into seeking approval of our physical appearance and behaviour by our peers and partners and eventually, the need to appeal to our colleagues & superiors at work might also come into play. This search for validation becomes addictive and we quickly develop a need for more. But what's really scary about this is the fact that we're letting other people take control over how we feel about ourselves by allowing them to define whether we are attractive enough or smart enough. This is beyond wrong, I mean, how can we value the opinion of others above our own?! Moreover, constantly seeking validation makes receiving disapproval a very painful experience and stops us from moving forward and aiming for our goals. Ultima...

''When you go back home''

I am not one to be easily offended. In fact, I think that we've all become very aware. Every joke and every comment we make is carefully curated, positioned in a way that has absolutely no potential to be taken as deragatory by whoever we're speaking to. Political correctness or not, I love how awake the society has become through all of this. The empathy that emanates from some of us when speaking to someone coming from a minority group, or experiencing difficulties that we will never go through ourselves. But I can't help feeling hurt when assumptions are made. It bothers me when someone assumes how I feel, who I am or where I seem to belong. It stings, when someone asks me when I last visited ''home'' after 15 years of being an expat. Because truth to be told, I have no ''home'' in my native country. HERE is my home. Here is where I belong, where a piece of me will stay even if I choose to move somewhere else in the future. The slightes...

2021

2021...where do I even start! The last 2 years of my life felt like a shapeless lump of time. I've grown, matured, moved forward in various aspects of life, yet it still feels like I've put a lot of my dreams and plans on the backburner, for obvious reasons. It wasn't all so bad though. This past year I... Picked up new hobbies Got promoted Bought my first car Saw one of my closest friends get married Discovered my inner child Had my 1st anniversary of being vegetarian Travelled for the first time since the pandemic broke out Learned to love my own company and bring myself on solo dates Made new connections Met my cousin's new baby Learned how to control my negative emotions better (mindset is everything.) Discovered new things about myself, who I am, and what I really want from life and personal relationships I'm sure I've had many other happy moments and realizations this past year, but these are the ones that come to mind first. With all that's going on ...

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